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Our Sixth Sense – Scientific Proof?

Napoleon Hill begins Think And Grow Rich by saying, “Truly, thoughts are things, and powerful things at that…” Later on, Hills states, “the ether in which this little earth floats, in which we move and have our being, is a form of energy moving at an inconceivably high rate of vibration, and that the ether is filled with a form of universal power which adapts itself to the nature of the thoughts we hold in our minds; and influences us, in natural ways, to transmute our thoughts into their physical equivalent.”

The magnetic field of the Earth, some scientists believe, is Hill’s ether. It is the medium in which we all exist, and it is what creates the ability for our thoughts to travel across the room or across the world. It can be seen as an ocean with waves. Our thoughts consist of electrical activity that can surf on this ocean and go from person to person.

It is thought that the magnetic field also guides migratory birds from north to south and back again. Schools of fish seem to react in unison, rather than one at a time. The same can be said of herds of animals on land. If other animals can use this sixth sense, why can’t we? This has become the subject of several interesting scientific experiments with very surprising results.

“Through The Wormhole” with Morgan Freeman recently dedicated an episode to our “sixth sense.” It explores how the blind can see, thoughts can fly across space, and how it might be possible for us to sense the future. You can watch the episode here. It is 43 minutes without commercials.

The Difference Between a Recruiter and a Sponsor

Ever wondered what is the difference between a recruiter and a sponsor? First, let’s take a look at an old saying that you’ve probably heard about network marketing:

Myth: “It’s just a numbers game. Go get 100 people to say ‘no’ and you’ll be closer to getting a ‘yes’ from someone.”

Truth: Network marketing is not a numbers game, it is a people business. People, not numbers, are the keys to being successful. People have desires, goals, and dreams. They have families – they are mothers, fathers, sisters, and brothers. They are not numbers, but real people.

This myth, or should I say LIE, teaches people to become recruiters rather than sponsors. A recruiter doesn’t care why you are doing the business. They don’t want to hear your goals. They don’t care what your spouse’s name is, or how many children you have. To a recruiter, it’s only a numbers game.

A sponsor treats you like a person. They care what makes you tick. They want to understand your goals so they can help you achieve them. A sponsor understands that you can get anything you want in life once you help enough people get what they want.

If you get good at recruiting, you’ll become known as a heavy hitter. If you get good at sponsoring, you’ll become known as a professional network marketer.

The Ethics of Network Marketing

The truth about network marketing, unfortunately, is that the “heavy hitters” just don’t care. At least not about you and me. They just care about making money. That’s why they tell people how much money they make, and in many cases, show their paychecks as proof. This is illegal – it is called enticement. They make you think anyone can do it – and it’s so easy – just to get you in. Every professional should understand the law as it applies to network marketing.

Gerald Nehra, a respected MLM attorney who helped found the Distributor Rights Association, cites the importance of ethics in network marketing. In an article he wrote, Nehra states, “What makes a network marketing company ‘ethical’ is also what keeps it legitimate and legal.” Nehra raises 3 key tests that any legitimate network marketing company should pass.

Test 1 – Must involve the sale of a real product or service. “The product or service must have real value to end-use consumers who are not affiliated with the company. Further, the product or service must actually be sold regularly to non-participant buyers.” If there are no retail customers, or the product would not sell without the opportunity attached, stay away. If the compensation plan does not pay you for getting your own retail customers, stay away.

Test 2 – Must not require a commissioned fee solely to participate. “There cannot be a fee to participate, other than an at-cost starter kit purchase requirement.” Always ask this question: What do I get of value for my $299, $399, or $499, etc. startup fee? If the answer is “The opportunity to make money” then stay away. If the answer is “A fabulous website to help you make money” then stay away.

Test 3 – Must maintain operational integrity. Network marketing companies must maintain ethical and acceptable business practices, including product advertisement, program advertisement, sales field enforcement, and operational integrity. This is the section that forbids the displaying of commission checks, making claims about products, and acceptable return policies (for both customers and distributors.)

So, how much money have you made? It may seem like a simple question, but think about the implications of the answer. Would you really want to be in business with unethical people? Most people wouldn’t. So, how much money have I made? I don’t know – I haven’t finished collecting it all yet.

Sources:
Based on the recorded interview from the Success In 10 Steps interview series.
Also Gerald Nehra deserves a lot of credit. You can learn more at his website MLMatty.com. It’s another great resource to get educated.

The Lambs Shall Lie Down With the Lions

One of the biggest challenges for many people in network marketing is the ability to listen. Most people think they have to talk a lot…know a lot…do a lot…help a lot. But there’s a catch: we cannot help until we listen.

When speaking with someone, a true professional networker will first listen. We must understand the person and where they are coming from before we can even begin to take any action. This can become a challenge, especially as we start to achieve success. That’s when the ego can take over.

Heavy hitters are consumed by greed and ego. To them, it’s a numbers game. You are a number. They won’t listen, because they already know everything. They don’t care about anything else. They don’t want to know you…or how many kids you have. It becomes hard to trust someone like that in the long run.

My mentor has a rule: never sponsor anyone into your business that you wouldn’t want to be on a one month cruise with. You should have that KLT factor – know, like, and trust – going both ways. Would you trust them with your money – AKA your downline? Will they jump into another deal in 6 months and steal your people?

Network marketing is definitely not a numbers game – it is a relationship business. If properly done, you will build lifelong friendships with people who will never quit your business. Stay away from greed and ego – it will destroy your downline.

Based on the recorded interview from the Success In 10 Steps interview series.

What Do Your Past And Jimmy Hoffa Have In Common?

One of the biggest challenges for many people is living in the moment – not the past or the future, but living in the NOW. Most people constantly think about the past…and dream about the future. While dreams are good, it is important to live for right now.

Most people have a tendency to dwell on the past. It’s very important to move on. I’m not saying that you shouldn’t learn from the past – or that you should forget it. What I am saying is not to give those bad experiences your power. Every time we think about something from the past, we give it our power and our energy. If you talk to your friend about an argument you just had with a coworker, then that’s how you are choosing to spend your energy – on negativity.

Difficulty in getting away from the past is a big reason for the 93-97% failure rate in network marketing. If we don’t move on, our beliefs will never shift. It doesn’t matter if the last 3 people we talked to said no. It doesn’t matter if that drunk guy at the bowling alley said it was a pyramid. Move on. Get over it.

You cannot change your past. It is over. It is dead. What you can change is how you spend your energy. That is something over which you have complete control. Don’t hold grudges. Forgive and move on. The minute you start thinking about a past failure, an abusive relationship, or any bad experience, that becomes the dominating thought in your mind and controls your energy. Spend that energy on something constructive.

Based on the recorded interview from the Success In 10 Steps interview series.

Bottom Fishing For Heavy Hitters

Most people in network marketing want to be sponsored by a heavy hitter, and then sponsor another heavy hitter or two into their downline. Everybody knows that heavy hitters will always recruit tons of people into the business. But not everyone knows what makes a person a heavy hitter. Is a heavy hitter the same thing as a professional network marketer?

A heavy hitter will generally recruit the most people into a business. They will typically personally sponsor 10 or more people every month. But here’s the catch: Network marketing is not a sales business, it is a relationship business. Heavy hitters don’t have the time to build relationships. To them, it’s a numbers game. They are the slick and polished salespeople with all the great lines to close people into the deal. A heavy hitter will never know your “why.” They will typically only return your phone calls if you are in their downline and sponsoring a lot of people.

A professional network marketer is very different from a heavy hitter. Rather than chasing the money and destroying people, a professional network marketer builds relationships and builds people. They know it’s not a numbers game, they treat you like a person – not a number. They know network marketing is not about sponsoring 100 people. It’s really about sponsoring 5-6 people, building relationships with them. They build people and teach duplication – so they get 5-6 who get 5-6, etc. A true professional network marketer is a mentor with a servant’s heart.

Everybody knows that like attracts like. If you hang around with a heavy hitter, you will become more like them. Their negativity will rub off on you and your organization. Do you really want to sponsor one of them? Is it worth it? A professional network marketer, on the other hand, will build you – build people – build your downline. They are someone that you would WANT to be on a one month cruise with. They bring value where they go. So – bottom fishing for heavy hitters? You might make some short term money, but in the long run, it will destroy your business.

Based on the recorded interview from the Success In 10 Steps interview series.

No Good Deed Goes Unpunished

Most people get into network marketing because they want financial freedom. They want to own their lives. They want to spend time with and provide for their families. For most people, it’s not because they want to be a million dollar earner. Most people have good intentions.

But then what happened? If you’re like most people, you made a list of your friends and family – because you were told to. You pitched them on your wonderful opportunity. You and your upline tried to close them – tried to sell them. Problem is, most people (over 90%) are sales resistant. They don’t like selling or being sold.

Off you went, untrained and unprepared for what was to lie ahead. The money you were trying to save for your family’s vacation? Gone. Your credit card balances? Higher. Your friends and family? Now they screen your calls. Any of this sound familiar?

Most people in network marketing get lied to unfortunately. They’ll tell you that you didn’t: set a high enough goal…buy enough leads…talk to enough people…make enough phone calls…quit your job and do this full time. You’re left thinking: “I should have tried harder” or “I should have known better.”

Here’s the million dollar question: If you never had accurate, truthful information, how could your lack of success be your fault? This is the number one question that you must “get” before you can move forward. Most people who read Success In 10 Steps will begin to understand this. They don’t want more rejection. They don’t want to have to sell anything. They don’t want yet another MLM.

Based on the recorded interview from the Success In 10 Steps interview series.

To Make More, You Have To Become More

“To make more, you have to become more” –Michael Dlouhy. When I first heard this, I figured it was just a line to make people feel better. Michael just wants people to plug in to the 30 day mental cleanse so he can promote himself. I mean, come on – you have to become more? All you have to do is say and do the right things in order to be successful…or so I thought.

Here’s a great word picture that I was recently reminded of. One of my favorite movies is Groundhog Day starring Bill Murray. Bill’s character, at the beginning of the movie, can be summed up in one work in my opinion: cranky. He’s angry at the world, always annoyed by other people, and he doesn’t even like himself. By the end of the movie, he’s completely different. He has learned to be happy with his world, be warm and friendly to others, and most importantly, love himself. He begins to live in the moment and make the best of everything. Everybody in town knows him and loves him.

But here’s the catch: At the beginning of the movie, he has a very sarcastic sense of humor. At the end of the movie, he still has the same wonderfully sarcastic sense of humor. He is still doing and saying the same things. So what’s the difference? He has become more. He has learned to live in the moment, make the best of everything, and love himself. His ENERGY is totally different at the end of the movie.

So it’s not really what he says and does that makes the difference. As he becomes a better person, he starts to believe that he deserves more. He realizes it’s not about rehearsing smooth lines to get a date, it’s about becoming the type of person who deserves a wonderful woman. Oh yeah – when he finally makes it through an entire date, watch for his AHA moment when he finally “gets it.” That’s where the real change begins.

To make more, you have to become more. True. Try it – you might like it. If not, well, there are two car chases in the movie. Both of them end in crashes, and one has an explosion. That should make it worth watching anyway.

Traffic Exchanges – The Top 3 Reasons Why Most MLMers Struggle

Many people in network marketing will, at one point or another, use a free traffic system such as a traffic exchange. If properly utilized, they are valuable tools. However, many people jump right in without getting educated and make at least one of these 3 critical mistakes.

How to Identify MLM Scams Using the Compensation Plan

Can you really get a feel for the company owners’ integrity and true intentions by analyzing a compensation plan? Can you identify MLM scams this way? I’ve always said the easiest way to identify network marketing scams is to read the policies and procedures (or terms and conditions – the CONTRACT.) For a novice, this is the simplest way. However, you can also look at the compensation plan, although it is much harder to determine integrity this way.

I’ll share an experience I had with one of my prior network marketing companies. I am slightly changing the specifics so it won’t be obvious which company it was (I like to keep this generic) but the overall picture is still clear. This was a service company that used a unilevel compensation plan that paid on 6 levels like this:

Personal Customers: 2%
Level 1: 1%
Level 2: 1%
Level 3: 2%
Level 4: 4%
Level 5: 8%
Level 6: 10%

The company’s explanation was something like, “as your team grows, you’ll have the most people on levels 5 and 6, so that’s why we pay the most on those levels.” And, yes, it generally happens that way as you become successful.

But here’s the catch: When you got your first personal customer, you would be qualified for levels 1 and 2. When you got your 10th personal customer, you would be qualified for levels 3 and 4. When you got your 20th personal customer, you would be qualified for levels 5 and 6. The slang term for this in the network marketing community is a “gotcha,” because it looks pretty simple – but then they gotcha. Gotchas are good ways to identify MLM scams.

Their justification was that we must acquire customers to have a legitimate business. But most people in the company never got 20 customers, so the company KEPT the level 5 and 6 payout in most cases – a whopping 18%! That’s more than half the total payout! So now we have the REAL reason why they built the plan that way – breakage. Gotcha, remember?

Breakage is the part of the compensation plan that the distributor does not qualify for – so the company generally keeps it. Some companies have features built in that allow some or most of the breakage to go into a bonus pool, but many do not. Even if they do add it to a bonus pool, the pool is typically paid out to the top 5% of distributors. Most people will still never see this money.

In my example, the company owners were greedy and underhanded, in my opinion. However, this is not always the case. Many times it comes from inexperience or ignorance rather than malicious intent, so please don’t automatically assume the owners are out to get you. What you should do is look at the compensation plan critically.

If there’s a bonus that you may not qualify for, find out who gets it – is it your upline? Your upline’s upline? Or is it somebody way up high who already wears the $3,000 suit, $5,000 watch, and drives the $100,000 car to the weekly trainings? I think that guy already has enough money. So if you don’t have a realistic chance of getting the bonus yourself, think twice about what’s really happening. This is a good way to identify network marketing scams.